Give What You Got #2

Hey Friends,

I’m on mission to become a grateful man, a generous giver, and a better steward of my God-given gifts. In this quest I have repeatedly heard God say this,” If you want to get better at these things, you must use what you already have”.

This is my attempt to step in this realm. I have the ability to use my words in a powerful way. This what I have to say.

Give What you Got #2:

1. If you are feeling depressed right now, ask yourself these questions:

a. Have I exercised today?
b. Have I done an act of service? (thanks Ryan Dahlstrom for a and b)
c. Have I done something that I am passionate about today?
2. Go find the nearest mirror. Set a timer for 1 minute. Repeat out loud, “I like you”.

3. Run into your fears, not away from them.

4. Consider this. We ALL need you to be your true self. Our world benefits the most when you are not hiding underneath insecurities and coping mechanisms.

5. You are worth fighting for!

6. You are incredibly loved.


Who Am I Challenge

The “Who AM I Challenge”


  1. Ask God, Who am I?
  2. Set a timer for either 5, 10, 30 or 60 minutes.
  3. Write down all the things that He tells you.
  4. In a week go back to what you wrote.
  5. Take 30 minutes to make edits.
  6. Share what you wrote with at least three people.
  7. Place what you wrote in an area that you can see it every day. (A rough draft is perfectly fine. No perfectionism!)
  8. Remind yourself of these truths every day.
  9. Live the things that you wrote.
  10. Revisit this challenge every three months.

Here are some questions to ask yourself as you write your “Who I AM” Challenge:

  • Who does God say that you are? This can be directly from God, the Bible, or what you know of yourself.
  • What is true about your character and nature, regardless of circumstances or experience(s)?
  • How do you describe yourself?
  • How do others describe you? What is true about those comments? (Just worry about the true statements)

Who am I Challenge: Gary Lloyd Francis

In each person resides immutable and irreplaceable truths. They are words, statements, virtues, marks of character, and composites of personality that are buried deep within one’s being. They are actions birth from beliefs. Beliefs that come from one source.

These beliefs are granted to us from Our Creator- The Great I AM. They are shaped in the milieu of one’s life and illuminated within the interactions of other people. They are seated in the core of who we are. They are essentially who we are irrespective of circumstances or how we may feel.

And although they do not change, new truths are revealed to us every day. Our job is to live in these virtues and allow Our God to unearth new truths- glorious revelations- day by day. In the midst of living we must fight, remain, and remind ourselves of these “I am” statements.

We fight. We fight because we are actively in a war for our lives. We are threaten by an evil one who desires to hold our hearts and glory hostage. He desires to destroy us before the beauty of who we are is fully revealed.

We remain. We remain in God’s love because this is where truth and reality live. This is our home and where we come from. This is the beacon that sheds light on eternity’s shores.

We remind. We remind ourselves because quiet simply- we forget. As humans, Christ-followers, people created from God, we are prone to spiritual amnesia. We often fall into fog and forget who we are. This may be one of the reasons why the Bible was created- to help us remember who we are.

Today I want to do an exercise in who I am. Today I want to hold fast to the truths about who I am. I fight, remain, and remind myself.  I boldly declare them through my writing and through my living. I want to remind myself, those who I am connected to, and those I will know in near and distant future of who I am. And I want to live accordingly.

I am Gary Lloyd Francis

I am loved. I was created by Love and for love. The most essential part of who I am is love. Although various storylines of my life may try to dictate otherwise, I know this to be true about me. I say this first because it is the most obvious, conspicuous, and vital in my life.



Vital. This has been the greatest attacks of the enemy on my heart.

I am son.

I am a bridge. A mediator between worlds. I am foundation, asphalt, gravel, cobble . I lay my life down like my Father. I connect people who otherwise would not be connected. I am man who is fond of the hybrid. I love marrying worlds. I love the poor become friends with the rich. And verse vica. Vice Versa.

I am …

I am a Son. I am a father in the making. Since the precipice of my conception I have been warring these truths. This a battle that I fight every day. The absence of my father in my life hurts me unending and strengthens me like no other. I am weakly strong in believing these truths about myself- I am a son and father to be.

I am a child of God

I am loved

I am funny. God has given me a laugh like no other. He has given me the gift of laugh. He has peeled my eyelids and ear drums to see and hear things that are humorous. Peculiar, weird, ridiculous, and obnoxiously humorous.

I am intelligent. Specifically emotional intelligent.

I am wise.

I am humble. This sounds like a counterintuitive statement but not as one would seem to think it. He has graced me to fall senselessly into the most humbling of moments. I am ever falling into, entertaining, sharing, and living my life embracing the most humbling experiences. Whether it is

I am very creative. This falls directly and indirectly in line with the nature of my God. He is a creator and therefore I do the same.

I am an usher. Papa has gifted me with an inexplicable means to draw people into the presence of God.

I am intuitive

I am athletic.

I am a dancer. I like drop it, spin it, slide it, and jump like it’s hot.

I am discerning

I am powerful

I am a writer

I am watchman

I am prophetic

I am a prophet. This one is hard to say sometimes. Especially when I am concerned about the thoughts of others around me. But it is true.

I am a seer

I am a visionary

I am joyful. This may very well be the chief attribute of my existence.

I am a healer

I am loving

I am a lover

I am intentional

I am a seeker of Truth

I am intense waters

I am a fire starter

I am a pioneer

I am an initiator

I am an encourager. This maybe my favorite way to exist. This is one of the places that the enemy works against me the most.

I am an advocate to the friendless and marginalized

I am listener. My ears are on the inside. I hear the best from my heart and not from my physical appendages.

I am a prayerful man

I am a man

I am man of God

I am a Father

I am a husband

I am Christ-follower

I am passionate

I am a tennis and volleyball enthusiast and player

I am an expression of God’s desires

I am God’s banner of love

I embody and imbue joy

I am One with the One

I am a part of the family of God

I am a part of the Body of Christ

I am a bride

I am lead by the Spirit

I am fearfully, carefully, and wonderfully made

I am bold

I am curious

I am gentle

I am adventurous

I am fighter

I am might warrior

I am a carrier of the spear (Gary)

I am holy

I am a freeman. This is what Francis means.

I am one who lives with beautiful tension and has overcome

I am teacher. More expressly I am an experiential teacher. I love teaching as one who teaches an apprentice. I love working side by side with others.

I am forgiving, merciful, and gracious

I am generous

Tag. You are it… Who are you?

Friar Francis

Give What You Got!

Give what you got

Here’s what I have today my friends:

1. I love you.
2. You are greatly loved.
3. Our Father loves you! Jesus loves you (not in the cheesy phrase way).
4. Your life is worth it!
5. Fear not! Do not be afraid of what others think. You have an audience of One!
6. You are looking pretty fly today!
7. Smile… from the inside first.
8. It’s ok if are crumbling right now.
9. Let’s lean on each other. We need each other.
10. Take 7 Deep Breaths.
11. Take a Step of Faith.
12. Give. Start with what you have and what you know best. Give what you got!

Road Trip Letters #2

To: My Little Brother

First I gotta say I am so incredibly proud of you. Second, I love you a whole lot! Third, enjoy every moment of this summer.

I trust that this letter is reaching you while you are on your “Solo”. I hope that you are reading this in the midst of nature and that you are enjoying the beauty therein. I hope that your companions are God, an incredible view, and a gentle crisp breeze.

I want to encourage you in this way while you are on your journey. Here are a few Words of Wisdom as you Walk through the Wilderness:

Embrace silence. Silence is more than golden. Silence will lead you to be attune with the Spirit of God like no other. Silence is where Our Father speaks most clearly. Learn to savor the sheer elegance of stillness. Know that when you stop speaking and start listening (solely for the sake of listening) you will meet God and others in the most intimate and noteworthy way.

Look for God in the most unexpected places and through the most unexpected people. God delights Himself and others by revealing Himself  with and in the seemingly improbable people and places. The adage is true in many ways, “Don’t judge a book by its cover”. There are people you are meant to meet in the near future who have words of life and wisdom that you need. Don’t be fooled by appearance.

Fight for the things you love. What I mean by this, is that you should take life from a more offensive position than a passive position. Join God in being faithful and committed to people. Choose people before they choose you. Fight for them like the way God fights for you.

Be unafraid to love your God and narrow your audience. Do not be dissuaded or persuaded by the masses. Let God and God alone be your sole focus. Love Him first and then let your love for people and other things flow from that source.

Ask God the hard questions. Ask God the deep things of your heart. He is powerful and able enough to handle them. He’s been waiting to hear and respond.

Pray and Keep Praying. And while you are at it, pray about everything- this is how we connect to Our Father. God wants to journey with you in every aspect of your life. It’s what has He intended for us from the very beginning. He desires to walk closely with us, experiencing all facets of our lives.

These are the words I felt lead to share with you. Please ask the Lord to highlight what specific words you need for this time. Some may be for now. Some may be for later.

I am beyond excited for this leg of your journey. You are on the cusp of soaring over some high terrain. Do not be afraid of the heights that God will take you. You have always been designed to fly high with the Spirit of God. God will guide you through every facet of your life. Just lean on Him and trust Him.

I love you little brother. Let’s chat when you get back from this summer expedition and when I get back from my road trip (We’ll talk about that later as well).

May his peace be with you,


Road Trip Letters #1

Road Trip Letter #1

To Father:

I am heading to Denver today Padre. Although the flight is delayed, I am excited for this adventure. I am ready for a well-needed respite for this weary soul of mine. I’m tired of stressing myself out and second-guessing myself. I need some silence and stillness. And I need to step away from the stress that I have continually placed upon myself.

For some reason Father, I have heaped frustration upon frustration into the depths of my soul. I have both willingly and unwillingly accepted lies and fears into my life. I have become crippled by the presumed thoughts of others. My life has been dictated by the measuring stick of the people around me instead of what you have prescribed for me.

I have become unhealthy worried about about being successful. I feel as though I am not getting “straight A’s” according to the culture around me. According to the report card of the Western World and Western Church’s standards I am falling short in my endeavors. I hate that!

But F it!

F that!

On this trip Father I want you to re-center my heart to your truth. Realign my heart to your heart. Capture my gaze and attention. I narrow my audience to You and to the people that you have placed right in front of me.

I ask that Bobby and I will have a great time with You and with each other on this trip. Get us to New Jersey safely. Let us have incredible fun in between the final destination. Help me to get work done for Barnabas.

Speak to us in any way you want. Lead us to divine appointments. I want to become alive again to You and to the people have placed in my life.

Revive me,


Looking for Love?

Looking for Love?

There is an itch in my soul that I cannot seem to scratch.

There is a hollow within me that needs to be filled.

Spirit won’t you come and fill me with Your Wind?


And then He said to me:

Son, what you are seeking is Love.


And then I spoke back to Him:

Here am I. Here I am. I come with an insistent heart.


Teach me how to love.


Teach me how to love and be loved.

Teach me how to You and be loved by You.

Teach me how to love others and be loved others.

Teach me how to love myself and be loved myself.


He then said to me:

You know love.

You know how to love.

Start with the person in front of you.


Love the poor.

Love those who hate you.

Love those who do not love you.

Love those whose spirits are broken.

Lay down your life again and again and you will find life and love unspeakable.

Give yourself for the sake of Love, and in return you and without fail, Love will find you.

Make My Nakedness Holy Again

A soul made naked am I

Exposed for all to see

That which delights the eye

And that which makes one flee



There is a wind that blows upon me

It is frigid, cruel, and icy

Oh, what would I give for a blanket

That warms and consoles me nicely


Instead of the dregs of death

That breathe warmly and heavily upon my neck

Massaging me with countless lies

Creeping and crawling like an insect


Instead I ask

Instead I plea

Cover me God

And  then uncover me


Cover me with oil

Wash me clean

Cleanse me until I am new

Make me a child that is seen


Take a way every stain

Remove the residue

Take away the leaves

That I hold onto


Make my nakedness holy again

The way you created me at first

Make my heart sing again

Give my bareness a new verse


Friar Francis

Familiar Numbness

A familiar numbness raps at the door of my heart:


Numbness: Let me in!I have come to dine with you.

Me: No!


Me: My heart has no room for you at the Table of Intimacy.

Numbness: But I have brought you the most sumptuous delights this fine evening. I have soup and salad and the most sensational deserts.

(Numbness calculating his words)

Numbness: If you wish, we can drown ourselves in the soup of sadness and eat the crisp taste of the salad of sullenness.


And, then… yes… then… we can dive headlong into the dessert of distractions. Of these, we can eat until your heart is completely filled.

Then, let us move to the living room and find comfort and warmth by the fireplace. You know, the fireplace, without fire. We can fix our gaze on the television set right above. We can watch our latest shows until the screen becomes blurry and all pain has ceased.

(Interjection by The Father)

The Father: Son, you have spent too much time entertaining this fool. It is time for you to come to the Table. There is bread and there is water. Come and have your fill. Loaves of Life and Water for your Wellsprings await you. And there will be wine to drink, although it may be something of an acquired taste. We will drink of your sufferings together but the taste at the end will be sweet!

(The Father looks into me deeply)

When you are full, let us tell stories. Let us recount the journeys and adventures we encountered today.

(Me, at the door)

Me: Well Numbness, The Father has given me a better offer. I must go now.

(After thought)

Me: And like I said, there is honestly no room for you ate table.

Friar Francis